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Navigating the Maze of Business Casual Attire: A Guide for Every Workplace

First impressions matter, and in the professional world, your attire is a powerful tool to make that initial impact. The realm of business casual attire can be quite perplexing, with a myriad of factors influencing what’s deemed acceptable. Whether you find yourself in the distinguished worlds of Law and Banking, the innovative corridors of Technology, […]

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While the majority of my blog posts revolve around Etiquette & Elegance, I occasionally like to share my favorite fashion finds, beauty products, and books. Since August is my birthday month, I thought it would be fun to do another ‘source book’ post and link a few of my favorites for you to enjoy. In […]

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Step back in time with us to the early 19th century, where a charming tradition was born – Afternoon Tea. This practice, beloved for its simplicity and sociability, has managed to withstand the changing tides of time. Let’s explore the history of Afternoon Tea, discovering how it evolved from a private indulgence to a celebrated […]

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As the world becomes more interconnected, travel offers us the opportunity to explore diverse cultures, taste unique cuisines, and immerse ourselves in the beauty of our global community. However, to make the most of these experiences and show respect to our hosts, it’s crucial to be mindful of international etiquette. Whether you’re a seasoned globetrotter […]

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In the realm of fashion, few dress codes strike the perfect balance between sophistication and style quite like cocktail attire. Whether you’re attending an evening soirée, a corporate event, or a special celebration, mastering this dress code allows you to exude an air of refined allure effortlessly. The key to nailing the Cocktail attire lies […]

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Embarking on the journey of planning a dinner party is an exhilarating endeavor that allows you to unleash your creativity, demonstrate your impeccable hosting skills, and curate an unforgettable experience for your cherished guests. With meticulous organization and thoughtful preparation, you can effortlessly orchestrate an elegant and successful event that will leave a lasting impression. […]

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Hosting a dinner party involves more than just serving delicious food. Proper table service etiquette can elevate the dining experience, making guests feel welcome and appreciated. In this blog post, we will explore four essential tips that you might not know but will ensure a polished and enjoyable mealtime for both you and your guests. […]

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With summer in full swing, it’s time to revamp your wardrobe and embrace the season’s vibrant fashion trends. Whether you’re strolling along sandy beaches, enjoying a brunch by the ocean, or attending a chic garden party, the Hamptons serves as an endless source of inspiration for summer fashion. The best part is that these coastal-inspired […]

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When my husband informed me that we would be hosting two other couples for dinner I was ecstatic! It is not very often that I get to host dinners but it is one of my favorite things to do and I must admit that I turn the simplest evening meals into full blown events! As […]

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Elegant Invitation Etiquette: 5 Tips for Perfect Dinner Parties Hosting a dinner party is an art form that combines elegance, hospitality, and attention to detail. From the moment you send out the invitations, you set the tone for the entire event. Mastering the etiquette of invitation is essential to create an unforgettable experience for your […]

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